Have you ever really thought what you'd grab in a fire, as adrenaline pounded your brain and a vacuum roared in your ears? That was what I was forced to do last night around 8pm. Husband and I were about to sit down to watch something. I was knitting, I think, or reading. It's all a blur. Photo from Eat, Drink, Chic.
From downstairs: "Mommy people are pounding at the door!" Husband, in his office, jumped up and went downstairs. I heard my name being called in the distance and I probably ignored it. It was strangely silent for a few moments and then I suddenly smelled smoke. It was acrid, electrical and appeared all of a sudden. I just heard, "Fire, get out!" I don't even remember where Junior or Juniorette were, but I remember thinking purse, get on shoes,throw laptop in purse, as I could hear Husband with the kids. Photo from uberblog, Creative Mint. Can you tell I'm trying to post photos to keep the spirit (and myself) cheerful? I know how to do this. It gives some order to my mind, here in the hotel lobby at 1am.
In the absence of visible flames, Nala and Foo Foo, the kids' best stuffed friends, were crucial. CRUCIAL. I ran downstairs, where a haze of smoke hit me. There was Junior, shirtless, and Juniorette had already darted out the front door as they learn in school. It was all in slow motion. I think Husband handed me a shirt for Junior and I grabbed his parka off the back of the door, and ran out with him. We were met by NINE fire engines, lights flashing, hoses being dragged to the basement. I wonder how long we were oblivious to the drama in the other part of the house? The kids immediately started to cry. It was very disorienting. I crossed the street with wailing, shirtless Junior and sobbing Juniorette. My hands were shaking but I got his shirt on, followed by his coat as neighbors came to help us. I dropped onto the curb and just stared, forgetting that I had kids, responsibilities. Photo from Colour Planet.
It finally became clear that the basement of our landlords (who live in the other side of the house) had caught fire, and since there is communication between our basements, smoke had permeated our side. Heck, he was smoking a cigar in his basement one night and I had to ask him to put it out. Their basement (his office - he's a financial planner) was tragically destroyed. His wife just had surgery last week, and they replaced our heating system just two weeks ago - it's really unfair. They're good people. And let me tell you, while Junior can spend hours playing firefighter, he didn't want to be part of the real action - it's actually very scary to little chaps. Husband ran back inside to get Scarlet, our cat (because Juniorette was crying so hard about her, even though Scarlet is no dummy and our door was open) and brought her out in a duffel bag.
We played games and ate peppermint Hershey's kisses at our neighbor's across the street, as we'd done when the landlords had a chimney fire a couple of years ago. Husband and I took turns going outside to get status reports. It's 1am right now and we're at a hotel. Everyone finally went to sleep but I haven't been able to so far. It's nice to have a blog at times like this when you're upset but don't know what to do with yourself and want to talk to someone but the hour is wrong. The fire chief told us there would be smoke damage to clothes, furniture, walls, to call the insurance people in the morning. We were allowed back in to get a few things. It smelled like the stuff from a childhood friend of mine's house that burned down. Photo from Tumblr.
Maybe the smell will clear overnight? All the windows had been thrown open by the firefighters. The screens were all pulled out. The dining room table was moved to the middle of the floor. Someone stepped in the cat's water and food. There was a stunning, acidy smell suggestive of burning wire or plastic, forcing us to cough. We're all safe, though, everybody is just fine but it's disorienting. Husband and I could not get ourselves organized to figure out how to get a hotel and arrange cat care. We were like Dumb and Dumber after lobotomies. I'm unsure what tomorrow holds (aren't we all?) - Will I have to throw out their stuffed animals and toys? School uniforms? My wedding dress and teddy bear? What about our beds and duvets and all our coats? My yarn stash is likely gone (if you're a knitter, this might mean something to you) and I wonder about my hand knitted sweaters. It's funny - I don't feel terribly attached to any of it at the moment. Husband's antique book collection - gone? Ah well, it all pales in relation to what could have happened. I can go upstairs now to our little hotel room home and snuggle with Husband and the kiddles. Home is where they are, after all. I'm a very lucky woman tonight. I feel sodumbly grateful that my family and our landlords are all ok (and that we get complimentary hot breakfasts tomorrow - that rocks.) Thanks for listening to my ramble. Photo from Jenib320's Flickr page.
Oh my god, how terrifying. I am glad your family and kitty are okay. Please let us know if you need anything - maybe we can all send you a skein of awesome yarn to rebuild your collection. Sending good vibes from San Francisco - on a clear cool night.
Posted by: Diana | December 04, 2011 at 11:45 PM
Oh no! I'm glad you are all physically safe. That must be so hard. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Posted by: Elizabeth Moon | December 05, 2011 at 06:03 AM
Your perspective and spirits seem good. I will be worried all day so do check back in.
Posted by: Mrs. Blandings | December 05, 2011 at 08:13 AM
Glad to hear all are safe! I really hope there won't be too much damage to your things. Hang in there - your dream house is right around the corner.
Posted by: Heather | December 05, 2011 at 08:33 AM
How can I help? We have bronchitis and viruses here but will be clear in a few days if you need school pick up. Take care and I hope that the damage isn't very severe. Has someone called service pro?
Posted by: rainydaymuse | December 05, 2011 at 08:35 AM
I'm glad everyone is safe including your cat. I hope everything isn't ruined and you are able to save most of your belongings.
Posted by: Cheryl | December 05, 2011 at 09:33 AM
NOOOOOOO!!!!!!
Posted by: Meg Carroll | December 05, 2011 at 09:36 AM
Wow! I'm so glad you all are okay! How very scary. May things go very smoothly with the insurance companies, and I hope your own new house is on the horizon!
Posted by: Janet | December 05, 2011 at 10:51 AM
Scary stuff! Glad you are all ok and can cuddle together.
:)
Posted by: speccy | December 05, 2011 at 02:09 PM
Poor you, what a shock. I hope you get to salvage the stuff that is dear to you, and that all is calm and back to normal soon.
Posted by: Mise | December 05, 2011 at 02:38 PM
awwww, casa.p... thinking of you and hoping things are looking better in the light of day.
xo
pigtown
Posted by: pigtown*design | December 05, 2011 at 03:10 PM
I'm so sorry to hear that, especially the yarn part!!! Glad to hear that the husband, kids and animals ( stuffed and alive ) made it out okay!
It's funny how when I read a blog post such as this one, you the writer are no longer a lady with great style and hilarious sense of humor. To me you become a fellow mom who I know from a playgroup or old college friend. Thank you for sharing your this with us!
Posted by: *em | December 05, 2011 at 03:40 PM
Oh Pinka, I am so sorry for your troubles!!! Sending warm wishes from the desert....Heather
Posted by: Heather Gross | December 05, 2011 at 07:32 PM
I'm so glad you are all ok.Saying a prayer for you and your family tonight. Posessions are replaceable, people are not. Maybe your new house is nearer than you think..My best wishes to you and the family.
Posted by: Tracey Foran | December 06, 2011 at 02:15 PM
How really awful for you. I hope things will stop smelling and settle back down soon as possible. I hope all things pretty and pink are okay.
Posted by: rosa | December 06, 2011 at 02:25 PM
Holy Crap. So glad you are all out. My mom had a kitchen fire a few years ago and it was awful. Really the only good part about it was that she had to buy new couches because the smoke smell never really came out of them. And she is boring and picked navy instead of awesome. I hope there is a little good that comes from this.
Posted by: pinksuedeshoe | December 06, 2011 at 04:26 PM
Oh I sympathize so 100% with you!! I am a new person to your blog, I came across you via a retweet from JoAnn Fabrics. But I might know you from elsewhere too, I suspect. Anyway, my family's house (where I grew up but no longer live) had a big fire in the attic a few years ago - we ended up salvaging a lot of the stuff but scrapping the house. We had a lot of water damage from the fact it all got applied top down, but if you want any advice on smoke damage, feel free to drop me a line. Not that I have any brilliant "this will fix everything" solutions, but I've at least tried a few things. The one that works best is just to leave it all outside for as long as you can. We also had a dry cleaner that specialized in repairing smoke damage. They might even be able to help your yarn - the sweaters we got back smell fine. It's just a question of what they'll take - tho you might do ok putting it outside too depending on how bad it smells now. I'm glad nothing worse happened for you guys tho, I wasn't there at the time of our fire, and that would make it all x 100 more traumatic I'm sure!
Posted by: Jenn | December 08, 2011 at 06:57 AM
Thank you so much - all of you for your well wishes and advice. So appreciated. xoxo Pink
Posted by: Pink mohair | December 08, 2011 at 09:34 AM